No chances

Bringing a life into this world is amazing

That is how we all arrived here.

Dear Kimberly:

I am 18 years old and I just graduated. I am enrolled in college but I just found out I was pregnant. I am so scared and my boyfriend just broke up with me and he says I am lying and trying to trap him. What should I do? I don't want to keep it but should I tell him?

Keeping Strong

Dear Keeping strong,


I was 18 years old too. I just graduated, was in college and had an awesome music career going and was almost in the same boat. Thank you for letting me post your letter.

This is what I think:

Sometimes when a women finds out she is pregnant it is the worst feeling possible.

If the man leaves then the woman has every right to make all the choices.

The man has none.


Abortion is a very contraversial topic but it's a fact of life.

Once a man chooses to depart he loses all his rights. All his rights.

He has no say because he is the one who left.

If a woman decides to keep the child then it is her right to let him know, if she chooses too.

If she decides to give it up for adoption or aboard it?

It is her choice because if the man is unreachable then it was for a reason.

After doing some research a woman has all the power to make all choices. Not the man who left.

So for any women who finds out she is pregnant? If the man broke up with you, questions you and asks for a paternity test? You give give him the middle finger and you can make all the choices. He has no rights, until you say.

If he left you, he never loved you.

Break free and just love that baby. He gave up his rights when he said good-bye and the law states it.

It's his loss. Dammit.