"Thank Goodness for the difficult people in my life........."

This blog is about encouragement, confidence and self-esteem.  Years ago I used to base my self-worth on what other’s used to think about me.  But once I started to make my own personal changes in my life, now I am a stronger woman than ever before.  My strength isn’t to intimidate anyone but in hopes to encourage those who still struggle.  Negative people can actually begin to reflect themselves on you.  That is when you need to eliminate them from your life and your happy place.  Broken Angels was first intended to relieve my stress and for me to be able to release my thoughts.  Though I have never completely disabled my page, ”under construction,” Over the years the page indeed has been a consistent process.  As time changes so do people.  That is purely factual and imminent.  Despite the hurdles and difficult people, I managed to literally fix the things that appeared terminal.  I’m proud of who I am and I don’t need a gold star from any particular figure make me feel important.  No one should have to accept humility or disrespect from anyone else.  I find it absurd and inhumane but unfortunately there will always be that type of people that exist.  However, I refuse  to deal with them.  Eventually when they see you are resilient to their hateful way, they will move on the next vulnerable person they consider weaker than them.  I just turn my head and move forward with my day.  Life can humble a materialistic person but life can also bitter a sweet person.  Tears do nothing for problem solving and being horrible to people does nothing for the soul.  Find a happy medium.  For the most part and for the moment that is what I have done.  It seems to have been productive.  But just remember that there is someone that is contempt with seeing you fail and thrives off your weaknesses.  Be careful who you pour your heart out too because someday someone might try to use it against you.  I see nothing wrong with keeping a partial wall up between you and certain people who need to earn your trust with time in order to break it down.  I learned the hard way but I also learned smarter ways.  I’ve decided to harden up a bit and not go out on a limb ever again to say my peace of mind.  At the end of the day, it’s just not worth my time anymore.  I’ve made amends with all the people in my life that truly matter.  The rest who still ponder on the past are not going to be a part of my future. Period; end of story.